細節成就愛情 戀愛中需要注意的5大細節

　　Ask any man who has been in a relationship and he is sure to tell you that more than the expensive dates and costly gifts，the small gestures and little things made all the difference.To sustain any relationship you don’t need a pocket full of money.What you need is a heart full of love and a brain filled with ideas to wooand be good to her.Keeping this notion in mind，here is the low-downof all the little things that count in a relationshi.

　　如果去問任何一個在戀愛中的男人，他會很肯定的告訴你，真正維系關系的是一些小手勢和細節，而不是那些花費昂貴的約會和禮物。要維系一段感情并不需要有大量的金錢。真正需要的是你有一顆充滿愛的心，腦海中時時能蹦跶出如何對女友好的想法。記住這一點，下面是列舉出在感情中需要注意的細節。

　　1.A good-morning/good-night text

　　1.一個早安/晚安的短信

　　You can make your girl’s day by sending her a lovie-dovie‘good morning’ text.Nothing makes a girl happier than waking up to a lovely message that wishes her a great day ahead.In case you missed the opportunity to text her in the morning,don’t worry.Send her a good night text and make sure to tuckher in and kiss her good night.She will sleep with the biggest smile on her face and will surely dream of you all night.

　　如果發一個窩心“早安”的短信給女友，她的一天都會過的很開心。用一個可愛的短信叫醒女友讓她有個美好的一天是一件無比幸福的事情。如果你錯過了早晨發短信的機會，別擔心，發個晚安給她，給她一個吻。她會面帶笑意的睡覺，絕對會夢到你。

　　2.Drop her home safely

　　2.要把她安全的送回家中

　　When I make the above point I don’t expect you to become her personal chauffeur.What you are expected to be is gentleman who drops his girl home after a date or at least offers to do so.This in no way suggests she cannot go alone，or that you alone can protect her.Simply put，it is a kind and chivalrousthing to do and so you must do it.

　　在寫這一點的時候，我并不期盼你成為她的私人司機。你需要做的是在約會之后紳士地送女友回家或至少要提出這一點。這并不是說她絕對不能自己走，或者你一個人絕對能保護她。這只是一個很友善的和紳士的行為，所以你必須要做。

　　3.Be her confidante

　　3.成為她的知己

　　One of the most precious facets of a relationship is the ability to share and talk random stuff.Listen and accept your partner’s secrets（be it the heavy and serious ones or the outrightdumb and funny ones)and become her confidante.In turn，do make it a point to share yours.By doing so，you will open up the channel of communication and facilitatefree talk and the fostering of trust.

　　戀愛中最珍貴的一點是能夠隨心所欲地分享和交談。聆聽，保守戀人的秘密(無論是嚴肅認真的還是傻傻有趣的)，成為她的知己。反過來，你也要去分享自己的秘密。這樣就可以建立一個交流和自由對話的橋梁，進而有了信任。

　　4.Remember dates

　　4.記得重要的日子

　　Women have a huge problem with a man’s inability to remember dates. You must avoid pissing her off by making an attempt to remember the dates that matter. Store them in your phone calendar or stick postits on your office desk if you must，but do not forget important dates.

　　男人總是不能記住重要的日子是女人們的一大煩惱。你必須要記住重要的日子，才能不讓她失望。把這些日子存在手機的日歷里，或者在辦公桌上貼上便簽，千萬別忘了重要的日子。

　　5.Share your ambitions

　　5.分享你的志向

　　Opening up to your girl and letting her in on your ambitions and career plans makes her feel needed and important.So don’t shy away from discussing work with her.Ask her for suggestions and inputs and she might just surprise you with her ability to solve your work related problems.

　　向你的女朋友展示你的志向和工作計劃，讓她覺得她也是被需要的，她很重要。所以別害羞與她談論工作的事情，問她一些建議，她解決相關工作問題的能力也許會讓你大吃一驚。