提高孩子智力的10個(gè)生活細(xì)節(jié)(組圖)(5)

鼓勵(lì)孩子多嘗試

　　9.Praise good effort, not intelligence

　　鼓勵(lì)孩子多嘗試，不要只注重結(jié)果

　　Your kids may be smart, but you should focus your praise on the effort they put into succeeding at tasks.Kids who are praised on intelligence often feel it is a fixed trait, and mistakes or failures severely hurt their self-confidence.Kids who are praised on effort often focus more on learning, and are not afraid of a challenge, or to fail and try again。

　　孩子們可能很聰明，但是父母更應(yīng)該注重對(duì)孩子們完成任務(wù)時(shí)所作出的努力給與鼓勵(lì)。如果父母總是在孩子們獲得成功時(shí)才給與鼓勵(lì)的話，孩子們會(huì)認(rèn)為 這是一種固定的模式，任何錯(cuò)誤或者失敗都會(huì)打擊到他們的自信心。被父母鼓勵(lì)多嘗試的孩子更多地注重學(xué)習(xí)，也不怕挑戰(zhàn)和失敗，他們會(huì)一次次的嘗試。

　　10.Learn a second language

　　學(xué)習(xí)一門外語(yǔ)

　　Early studies in this field have preliminarily shown that bilingual kids can focus better under pressure and focus better on relevant information.Research is being done still, but many argue that the peak of language learning ability ends before puberty.It has been shown that young children can learn new languages with nearly perfect fluency and pronunciation。

　　這一領(lǐng)域先前的研究表明，會(huì)說(shuō)兩門語(yǔ)言的孩子在壓力環(huán)境下更能集中精神，對(duì)于相關(guān)信息的專注度也更高。相關(guān)方面的研究還在繼續(xù)，但是許多人認(rèn)為，語(yǔ)言學(xué)習(xí)能力在青春期前達(dá)到頂峰，而后就保持在固定的水平。還有證據(jù)表明，孩子學(xué)習(xí)起新語(yǔ)言來(lái)會(huì)非常流暢，發(fā)音也更為準(zhǔn)確。